Pregnancy and Pandemic
My wife is 33 weeks pregnant. In the middle of a pandemic. We really can’t do things normally, or easily, I guess. It’s a bit weird expecting a baby in the middle of a pandemic. Our mental health has taken...
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Pride Month Ask Me Anything
June is Pride Month! 🌈 So in prep for pride month I’m taking questions about anything. From being bisexual, to having a kid, to whatever. If it’s about being queer or queer adjacent then ask. This includes questions about my...
Poem: Change In Light
Our connection is touch and the change in light as I hover over you, although you can hear I have little to say except be nice to your momma until we meet at least. It’s a back and forth soothing...
Panic, Pandemic and Self-isolation
My anxiety is through the roof. Every day now. I generally live with low-level anxiety, every day I’m anxious. It’s become my natural state. I can’t even imagine feeling calm. If I’ve ever felt calm. This is my normal. Except...
Miscarriage And The Twelve Week Wait
Written November 2019 The two-week wait is tough but for some reason, I am finding the first trimester a little more difficult this time around. Or maybe I’m just remembering it a little differently. I don’t remember being this anxious...
So, My Gall Bladder Was Necrotic
So my year started off okay and then took a somewhat dramatic turn that saw me in the hospital with a necrotic gall bladder. I’m not even making that up. So, two weeks ago I had surgery to remove my...
Guest Post: Transnational marriage: Could you handle being married to a foreigner?
I just found out what kind of marriage I’m in. I literally turned to my husband a few minutes ago and asked, “What sort of marriage is this?” He looked at me and I could tell he was wondering how...
2019 Word Count Total
110,004 So my pledge for Get Your Words Out was 200k but I kinda crashed and burned in the last six months. But I managed to break 100,000 words again and I wrote 7k more words than last year and most of...
