Pronouns 101

Pronouns are an important part of most languages, and in English, there are a variety of pronouns to choose from beyond the typically gendered he and she. A pronoun is a word that refers to either the people talking (I or you) or someone that’s being talked about Pronouns specifically refer to people that you are talking about.

People can choose whatever pronouns they want and there are a lot of them to choose from. While the name Neopronouns suggests that they’re new, and not been around for very long, certain pronouns most have been around for decades. Some of these ‘new’ pronouns have been around for over 100 years.

So if you don’t feel he or she is right for you (even if you’re cis), or just want to learn more pronouns, here is a guide to various pronouns, with examples of how to use them. Feel free to use the handy menu to skip to the ones you want.


They/Them is a pronoun that seems to have created some controversy recently because people seem unwilling to realise that we’ve been using it as a gender-neutral pronoun for hundreds of years.


I use they/them online. I like the neutrality of it and as a singular pronoun it’s becoming more common. Because of its frequent use it’s pretty easy to get used to and understand. Often people use it to try it out before deciding on another.

TheyThey went to the park.
ThemI saw them at the park.
TheirThey walked their dog at the park.
TheirsI don’t have a cat so they said I could visit theirs anytime.
Themself/ThemselvesThey tend to walk to the park by themselves/themself.


Pronounced a/air Ae/Aer pronouns are one of the older pronouns and have been around since 1920. David Lindsey created them as pronouns in his fantasy and science fiction novel Voyage to Arcturus. The characters that use this pronoun were formed of air but humanoid.

AeAe went to the park.
AerI saw aer at the park.
AerAe walked aer dog at the park.
AersI don’t have a cat so they said I could visit aers anytime.
AerselfAe tends to walk to the park by aerself.


Co pronouns were first coined by Mary Orovan in her pamphlet Humanizing English in 1970. Orovan also suggests E as a nongendered pronoun.

CoCo went to the park.
CoI saw co at the park.
CosCo walked Cos dog at the park.
Cos’sI don’t have a cat so co said I could visit co’s anytime.
CoselfCo tends to walk to the park by coself.


E/Em pronouns are were first created over 100 years ago in 1890 by James Rogers who first introduced them in an article in The Writer. The article was called That Impersonal Pronoun. There have been two other variations of the e/em pronouns over the years, with the full set, created in 1977 and 1989.

EE went to the park.
EmI saw em at the park.
EsE walked es dog at the park.
EsI don’t have a cat so e said I could visit es anytime.
EmselfE tends to walk to the park by emself.


Ey/Em – also known as Elverson Pronouns started life as a competition entry in 1975 to create a singular they pronoun. As you can probably tell, the creator, Christine Elverson simply dropped the th from they/them pronouns.

EyEy went to the park.
EmI saw em at the park.
EirEy walked eir dog at the park.
EirsI don’t have a cat so ey said I could visit eirs anytime.
EmselfEy tends to walk to the park by emself.


Fae/Faer pronouns are becoming more and more common. From some search they were originally coined as a joke and their continued use a middle finger to the gender binary. Which I completely endorse. There are a few variations but this is the most common.

FaeFae went to the park.
FaerI saw faer at the park.
FaerFae walked faer dog at the park.
FaersI don’t have a cat so fae said I could visit faers anytime.
FaerselfFae tends to walk to the park by faerself.


Humanist pronouns were used in a humanities text book and created by Sasha Newborn in 1982 (so they’re the same age as me). Either based on the word human or humanities (which too be fair, is just a plural of humanity). Pronounced hugh, as in hu-man, rather than who.

HuHu went to the park.
HumI saw hum at the park.
HusHu walked hus dog at the park.
husI don’t have a cat so hu said I could visit hus anytime.
HuselfHu tends to walk to the park by huself.


It is the pronoun of inanimate objects and is often considered offensive but some people feel more comfortable using it as a pronoun for themselves. The key is never to use it as a pronoun without a persons consent and to never use it as a way to dehumanise someone.

ItIt went to the park.
ItI saw it at the park.
ItsIt walked its dog at the park.
ItsI don’t have a cat so it said I could visit its anytime.
ItselfIt tends to walk to the park by itself.


Person pronouns are for people of any gender, making them great for cis people to use if they don’t want to stick with the overly gendered he or she but none of the other pronouns feel right.

They were first created in 1972 by John Clark and published in an article in the American Anthropological Association newsletter.

PerPer went to the park.
PerI saw per at the park.
PerPer walked per dog at the park.
PersI don’t have a cat so per said I could visit pers anytime.
PerselfPer tends to walk to the park by perself.


Thon is the oldest purposely created pronoun set. Created in 1858 by a composer of church hymns called Charles Converse. It’s a contraction of the phrase ‘that one’ and not commonly used.

ThonThon went to the park.
ThonI saw thon at the park.
ThonsThon walked thons dog at the park.
Thon’sI don’t have a cat so thon said I could visit thon’s anytime.
ThonselfThon tends to walk to the park by thonself.


Xe pronouns have a lot of variations in the spelling and all are valid. I’ve listed just one version of the spellings; any can be used. They were created in 1973 by Don Ricker in an issue of Unitarian Universalists a newsletter of a spiritual organisation.

XeXe went to the park.
XemI saw xem at the park.
XyrXe walked xyr dog at the park.
XyrsI don’t have a cat so xe said I could visit xyrs anytime.
XyrselfXe tends to walk to the park by xyrself.


These pronouns are based on the Spanish words ser and se by a tumblr user. Ser and sé mean I am and I know respectively, and these pronouns are almost a way for saying I know I am. At least that’s my perspective.

ZaeZae went to the park.
ZaemI saw zaem at the park.
ZaerZae walked zaer dog at the park.
ZaersI don’t have a cat so zae said I could visit zaers anytime.
ZaemselfZae tends to walk to the park by zaemself.


Pronounced the same way as the Xe (zee/zear), and with similar variations, this pronoun has been around for 20 years already. There are a couple of versions created in ’97 and ’98 by Richard Creel and Kate Bornstein respectivly.

ZeZe went to the park.
ZirI saw zir at the park.
ZirZe walked zir dog at the park.
ZirsI don’t have a cat so ze said I could visit zirs anytime.
ZirselfZe tends to walk to the park by zirself.

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One Reply to “Pronouns 101”

  1. Hey there, I’m looking for more information about the history and use of “per” and it’s really difficult to find anything. Do you happen to have any more insight? Your namedrop of John Clark is very tantalizing…

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